Assalammualaikum wr wb..

This issue has been in my mind lately.. Maybe cause of my age, environment, people around me, time... Just MAYBE..

The one. The very mission that most set out to look for when they are thinking of settling down. Then again how you know if he or she is the one. You may have been through countless relationships or even none and in your head you have this image of someone who you feel is perfect. And cause of this, when you meet people of the opposite sex they start considering is this one the one? And that leads to friends falling for each other.

How does one know who is the one or if your partner is one you can be with for life? And when you find it why do marriages still end up in divorce. Not counting shotguns of course. Some people say finding someone with similar intellectual capabilities is good. Some believe in divine intervention, let god decide, or fate. Some people just say as long as good love is made that’s the one. While some more materialistic individuals believe that as long as the partner’s rich you found the one.

This is one obsession that has cause a lot of hurt, anger and regret. When you meet a very good friend of the opposite sex, at least one of them will start to think is this the “one” that will be the partner I’m looking for. It’s these factors that regrets for either going for it and fail or don’t go for it occurs.

There is no answer to this question. The only one who knows is the guy above if you believe in him. It has been said that things will be settled in god’s time not yours. So when a situation arises, either you like a friend a lot or you just think he or she is the one, patience is a virtue wait and follow your heart..

I'm blissful... Yet confused... Still exploring.. Excited... GRATEFUL..

Wassalammualaikum wr wb...