Life is beautiful yet sadly no one notices how beautiful it is until it is too late.
Why is this so? How is it that everyday as we step out of the house and all we notice is the traffic, the bus running late or the lack of seats on the train. Ask yourself when the last time you actually looked out appreciated what you had and said was: "what a wonderful world."
How is it that no matter how advance technology is and how easy it is to keep in touch we don’t keep in touch with the people we hold dearest to our hearts? When was the last time you told your dad, your mum or anyone how you felt about them? Why must we wait till they pass on before we cry at their death bed or funeral regretting not telling them just how much you love them?
It is human nature to procrastinate, but this shouldn’t be the case especially in the world we live in today. Everyday you hear about people being killed in road accidents, shootings and terrorist attacks. Death is become a statist that people ignore. In this modern age, scientists have created computer programs that try to predict everything but no computer can ever predict life.
Anything can happen anywhere.
No one can tell you how old you will live till. No one can tell you what you need to do before you die. Death comes to everyone at any time, it is a matter of how ready are you to accept it. There is no point in fearing death, we should embrace it and be prepared when we are called to meet it.
Bear no grudges, anger no one, express your love and appreciate what you have and what is around you. Take death as a blessing, an ending of worldly suffering and pain. Treat death with decency and respect.
Life is beautiful never take it for granted, never leave any words unsaid and always appreciate what you got and what has been given to you.
Assalammualaikum wr wb...Closure in life is defined as an end to one chapter. It is the ending of a good or bad chapter with hopes that a better one would be written. But how do we end a chapter which had ended abruptly or undesirably ? How do we close a chapter that we have become so fond of ? How can we bear to close a chapter and bring solace to our lives ?
Closure especially on matters of the heart takes time and effort or just a shot in the arm. Above all however we have to learn to accept the situation in front of us and not ask "what if" or "why." Many times we cannot close a chapter in our lives because we keep asking ourselves "what if" or "why." If we keep wondering, what if this happened, what if that happened or why did things turn out this way, we would never be able to accept what has happened. To have the emotional connection shared with something or someone or experienced cut off abruptly is a hard thing to accept but it happens. The passing of a loved one is one great example of it. We tend to always ask ourselves, why I didn’t spend more time with that loved one or why I never told that individual how I felt. Similar to a relationship, we always wonder why and what if. Off course difference is that you’d never see the love one that passed on again. It is easier to get closure or even just sweep it under the rug. But when it has to do with someone you used to love and care about, things are a lot different. You’d see them again and they’d continue to torment you without having to say a word if you don’t seek to close the chapter.
Eventually we would find closure somehow or other. We always would to find ways to find closure on an issue or if not sweep it under the rug. To find this closure, the first thing we need to do therefore is
ACCEPT SINCERELY that it is over. We would need to relinquish all glimmers of hope of any resurrections. We need to understand how we feel and conquer it. The problem is these things take time, effort or some major jolt to encourage the acceptance of the need to close the chapter.
Therefore we should always try to face our demons and not run from them. Accepting that something is the way it is and that it is for the best is a way to get closure.
Remember that only by fully accepting the conditions, would you be able to close the chapter and be able to move on.
Now that, that is written... I would like to write about something that I'm never good at... Hmmmmm..
I wonder if he realizes how much I care about him...
That I spend hours thinking about him...
Hours talking about him...
I wonder if he realizes that all my friends know all about him,
But he doesn't even know them.
Does it even cross his mind that someone right under his nose cares so much for him?
That everything makes me think of him....
Many song lyrics remind me of him.
Does it occur to him that the person who adores him is right in front of him?
I guess it's not that obvious.
One day I'll tell him everything...
How I've day-dreamed about us being together...
That I've dreamt of being in his arms...
Maybe one day I'll tell him,
But is today that day...Way Back Into LoveI've been living with a shadow overhead,
I've been sleeping with a cloud above my bed,
I've been lonely for so long,
Trapped in the past,
I just can't seem to move on!
I've been hiding all my hopes and dreams away,
Just in case I ever need them again someday,
I've been setting aside time,
To clear a little space in the corners of my mind!
All I wanna do is find a way back into love.
I can't make it through without a way back into love.
Ooo hooow
I've been watching but the stars refuse to shine,
I've been searching but I just don't see the signs,
I know that it's out there,
There's got to be something from my soul somewhere!
I've been looking for someone to she'd some light,
Not somebody just to get me through the night,
I could use some direction,
And I'm open to your suggestions.
All I wanna do is find a way back into love.
I can't make it through without a way back into love.
And if I open my heart again,
I guess I'm hoping you'll be there for me in the end!
There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration
Not just another negotiation
All I wanna do is find a way back into love,
I can't make it through without a way back into love,
And if I open my heart to you,
I'm hoping you'll show me what to do,
And if you help me to start again,
You know that I'll be there for you in the end!
Wassalammualaikum wr wb...
