Assalammualaikum wr wb..

Listen! The law says that if you kill someone, you must be punished. But murder begins in the heart -- when you are angry or jealous, or hate someone. If you are really going to keep God's law, you must deal with the bad feelings inside you, not just with the crime of murder. God's laws teach us to love him and to love one another, not simply to keep a set of rules. We must obey God from the heart.

The rules say that you must not be unfaithful to your marriage partner and if you want a divorce you must sign the right papers. But God made marriage to last a lifetime. He wants couples to be loving and faithful to each other, without even looking longingly at someone else's partner.

You have been told that as long as you love your friends, it's all right to hate your enemies. But the law of love says, "Be kind to your enemies too". You see, if you are going to take your place in heaven, you must behave in the way that God pleases. God sends sun and rain for everyone -- good and bad alike! He gives his good gifts to those who don't deserve them, as well as those who do. You should be like God -- loving and giving. It's the generous, open-handed people who will themselves receive happiness and love.

"Don't criticize others. Imagine someone with a big plank of wood stuck in his eye offering to remove a tiny speck from someone else. No one is so free of faults that he can see straight enough to put others right.

On a separate note,

"Don't blame anyone, never complain of anyone or anything

Because basically you have made of your life what you wanted.

Accept the difficulties of edifying yourself

And the worth of starting to correct your character.

The triumph of the true man arises from the ashes of his mistakes.

Never complain of your loneliness or your luck.

Face it with courage and accept it.

Wa'alaikumsalam wr wb...